Top 10 Engagement Ring Myths
Before you choose an engagement ring, there’s a lot to consider—beyond just cut, carat, or budget. From outdated spending rules to misconceptions about diamond quality and style, many first-time buyers find themselves sorting through more myths than facts.
At The Diamond Guys, we believe clarity matters as much as sparkle. Whether you're just beginning your search or finalizing your decision, understanding these common myths can save you time, money, and second-guessing.
Here are the top 10 engagement ring misconceptions we think every couple should know—so you can focus on what truly matters: finding the perfect ring for your story.
1. You Must Spend Three Months’ Salary
Outdated and Unnecessary
This “rule” was invented by a marketing campaign in the 20th century—not by jewelers or couples. The truth? You should spend what feels comfortable for your lifestyle and relationship. At The Diamond Guys, we guide you through your options with fair pricing, custom designs, and flexible budgets—without pressure or gimmicks.
2. Only Natural Diamonds Are “Real”
False—Lab-Grown Diamonds Are Chemically Identical
Lab-grown diamonds are 100% real diamonds. They offer the same sparkle, structure, and durability as natural-mined diamonds, but are created in a controlled environment. Many clients choose them for their value and beauty, and we proudly offer both options at The Diamond Guys.
3. Bigger Is Always Better
Not Necessarily—Cut, Setting, and Style Matter as Much
A larger carat weight doesn’t always mean a better-looking ring. In fact, a well-cut diamond with a smart setting (like a halo or hidden halo) can appear larger and more brilliant than a bigger stone with a poor cut. Our expert diamond guidance helps you maximize sparkle, not just size.
4. Engagement Rings Must Be Solitaires
Not Anymore
Solitaires are timeless, but they’re far from the only choice. From three-stone rings to diamond halos, vintage-inspired details, and modern east-west settings, today’s couples are embracing unique, personalized designs. At The Diamond Guys, we specialize in custom engagement rings that reflect your style—not just tradition.
5. You Can’t Customize on a Budget
You Can—And Should
Customization doesn’t always mean extravagant. Choosing your diamond, setting, and metal (white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, or platinum) allows you to create something meaningful without overspending. Our team works with you to craft something special—whether your budget is $2,000 or $20,000.
6. Engagement Rings Are Only for Women
Modern Love, Modern Jewelry
More couples are choosing engagement rings for men or creating matching bands to mark the engagement together. Love isn’t one-size-fits-all, and neither are the rings. We’re here to help every couple design the pieces that best suit them.
7. You Have to Choose a Diamond
Other Stones Are Just as Meaningful
While diamonds remain the most popular choice, sapphires, emeralds, and other gemstones make beautiful and symbolic engagement rings. Whether you want a diamond halo with a colored center stone or a gemstone-accented band, our designers can bring your vision to life.
8. You Need to Know Their Exact Ring Size
Not a Dealbreaker
If you’re planning a surprise proposal, don’t worry if you’re unsure of the ring size. We’ll guide you through subtle ways to estimate, and resizing afterward is often simple—especially with semi-custom or solitaire settings. (Tip: eternity bands and some intricate designs are harder to resize, so consult with us first.)
9. The Proposal Must Come First
Design the Ring Together—It’s More Common Than You Think
More and more couples are choosing the ring together after the proposal—or even designing it in advance and proposing with a placeholder band. Engagement is about partnership, and at The Diamond Guys, we welcome couples into the design process for a collaborative and enjoyable experience.
10. All Diamonds Are the Same
Cut, Clarity, and Certification Matter
Not all diamonds are created equal. Two stones of the same carat weight can look completely different depending on cut quality, clarity, and color. That’s why our team offers expert diamond guidance to help you understand the 4 Cs and choose a stone with brilliance, balance, and long-term beauty.
Final Thoughts: The Truth Is What You Make It
There’s no single path to the perfect engagement ring—only the one that fits your values, style, and love story. Don’t let outdated advice or internet myths guide one of life’s most meaningful purchases.
At The Diamond Guys, we’re proud to offer:
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Custom engagement rings in every style and budget
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Both natural-mined and lab-grown diamonds
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Personalized service in Scottsdale, AZ and Los Angeles, CA
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Expert, pressure-free guidance every step of the way
Discover Your Ring—Your Way
Let’s design something extraordinary. Visit one of our showrooms or book your private consultation to explore our full range of engagement rings and diamond jewelry.
Scottsdale Showroom
14601 N. Scottsdale Rd, Suite 125
Scottsdale, AZ 85254
480-656-0652
Tues–Fri: 10am – 6pm | Sat: 11am – 5pm
Los Angeles Showroom
16255 Ventura Blvd, Suite 515
Encino, CA 91436
213-510-3555
By Appointment Only
